MLC W and preparing for S or D in the new year

[Seeker7]

I agree with you totally on that the fantasy is only in her head and it is a very powerful thing. Look at this way. I am sure you have fantasied about many different things in the past but as we all have come to find out is that it never turns out the way we play it in our heads. Trust me I was there and fantasized about something different and I thought if I did x that life was going to be better. No one could have told me different and would not have cared if they did because the state of mind I was in. I had to play it out for myself to realize that the grass is not greener on the other side. My decisions made it be one of the biggest mistakes of my life. Unfortunately I had to learn it the hard way just like most people have to do. Until the bubble pops it will always be there and if it does not pop they will always look back and say what if. Now on how you deal with it or handle it you are the only one who can make that decision. You can not focus on the future of what may be because no one knows the future so just focus on today and be the best person you can be.