MLC W and preparing for S or D in the new year

[Gordie]

The grass is not greener on the other side like they think it is going to be,and you don't miss things until they are gone,and they run the risk of burning the bridges so they can't get back the lbs closes the door,

Agree. Fortunately, W definitely doesn't want to burn the bridge with me at this stage. If anything, she wants to keep me in her life as much as possible and it seems like for some this prevents the necessary growth to get to a place where one could reconcile.