Dpd, you are so right. I think that's why he brings up divorce every morning. It's rarely at night when we could actually talk. And you know what, I'm grateful. I try so hard not to react but if I have to have a deep conversation about it, I'm not going to be able to keep it together.
This morning I did try to have a positive happy attitude. I haven't seen him all day. Just now getting home and I'm so sick to my stomach worried about what's going to be said.
The one piece of advice I'll give to you if you feel you've emotionally abused your wife. Change, my friend. Do that 180 NOW and commit to it. If your W feels anything like me she feels worthless and completely unloved. So please, when the time is right, spend as much time and energy showing her she's wrong.
M:41 H:43 T:26yrs M:19 yrs S:15 D1:14 D2:9 Living together but separated