Love is a decision - my story

[PacLove]

One thing that I did learn in one of the first books I read on wining you EX back is that the quickest way they can see changes in you is through other people telling them. Like relatives and friends telling them that they have seen changes in me

I wish that applied to my sich, but my W didn't confide in anyone about us - we don't have family nearby on either side and she only told 2 of her closest friends about the S and no one about the A.

You have a very high chance of being happier then ever in your current marriage as long as both parties are willing to do the work necessary to make it work right.

Definitely agree with this - and it's shown through some of the books and success stories I've read. I've even witnessed it more than a few times through friends who went through their own personal crisis of either S. or A.

I momentarily got caught up in the "could there be something better" but my W turning around quickly changed that perception.

Here is one about A. Over 50% of marriages have an A but only 20% of divorces are because of an A.

This statistic still shocks me - and yet I've come across it over and over again. It's hard to believe that half of the M out there fall victim to this, but easy to see now that I've lived through it. It certainly gets you wondering about your family/friends and their marriages... doesn't it?