Yeah, cake-eating is the perfect way to describe what he is doing. My DB coach said to wait it out and the affair (now affairs) won't last. I have faith and believe what she is saying, but then there is that little voice in the back warning me to prepare for the worst.
This is one of the hardest things I have ever had to do. And what makes it even harder is the knowledge that my family will be separated.
I am keeping some very simple mantras close at hand:
1. Don't think too far ahead into the future 2. Back off and let him be 3. Focus on myself and my beautiful son
I figure if I can hang on and just do these things, things will work out one way or another.
