Hey FG, glad the DB coaching went well. I got very similar advice when I had my coaching too.

I'm also trying to build my relationship/ friendship with my H before tackling the reconciling to the marriage issue. I said on my current thread that I understand that this wouldn't be everyone's cup of tea as the feeling on here is don't accept anything less than them crawling and begging to come back. IDK, that's a nice to have as far as I'm concerned so I'm no going to hold my breath, in the meantime my H has agreed to go 'out' with me once a week and has started to text me everyday if he can't see me. He hasn't come back home yet but we are in a much better place than we were a couple of months ago.

Interestingly when I re-read DR the advice in there is definitely not as harsh as some of the advice on here but what we've got to remember is that it's not one size fits all!

You sound excited with the advice from the DB coaches FG and your right, what have you or any of us got to lose!

((FG))


Me - 47
H - 45
D-16
M - 6 years
Separated - May 16

Don't leave me behind can't you see me I'm shining... (Years & Years - 'Shine')