Thanx cadet ,so should I stay in total no contact like I have been doing,at Xmas i was going to put a bar of her favorite chocolate thru her letterbox,she would of know it was from me,then I had second thoughts that it was a bad idea,
You want to send me a bar of chocolate too? That is pursuing, tbh I do not want you to pursue me. You think she does? You think that will get you closer to your goals?
