Seeker7 yes you are right, no harm in "I feel" statements, it's the "I think" or "I wish" you got to watch out for...
I like your write up on Chivalry... its definitely something I struggled with early on and even recently when I was about to throw in the towel - it takes a lot of strength to stay faithful and honorable through this hole process with a huge dose of patience. I definitely have some regrets which we will have to get past through the R process.
BTW I don't think I've said it before but I wholeheartedly agree with your sig that "Love is a decision"
Me: 40 W: 45 T: 13, M: 11 1 D: 9
Suspect A 6/15 ILBINILWY 8/15, and 3/16 EA/PA Discovered 3/16 EA admitted 3/16 W Moved out 4/16 W opens R talk and says A over 1/17