Keep Wearing Wedding Band? [Thread #6]

[ForGump]

p.s The DB coach did bring up the concept of resentment. Resentment piling up over the years. That was a provocative idea for me. I have been thinking about it.

I'm not thinking about just, "what did I do wrong" that caused her resentment. Not just looking to pin blame on me (nor her). I'm thinking about what part of our dynamic -- where/when were the friction points, where did our desires & wishes differ -- that would cause her to become resentful of our marriage, and have it subconsciously pile up. I think much of that was accentuated by her impulsive, passionate personality.

But it makes think about how I can diminish those friction points ... as a part of my nothing-to-lose DB ...