JR, to me, this is an object lesson in the concept/aphorism that love is made, not found. If my W treated me w/ warmth and affection, I think the feelings would regenerate and regrow quickly. There is a foundation of attraction, at least from me to her. (I believe there is some in the other direction as well, which is exactly why she has to fight it by being deliberately cold toward me).
The question is whether she wants to water the grass she's standing on ....
Me: 50, MLC/WW 45 Young kids Nov 2015: BD1 Apr 2016: BD2 Jan 2017: W filed Feb 2017: D final
