Earlier this week my W took down the Xmas decorations and put the normal pictures back up on the mantle. Our wedding picture used to be front and center. Now it's nowhere to be found. This really hurt when I noticed it. But I'm keeping it to myself. Mentioning it to her is just pursuing.
I know how much it hurts when the stuff that will remind us of us start diapering. When my W moved out there was a box full of pictures of the Kids and of us. She took it with her and then a few weeks later she gave me a box back. It had ever single picture that I was in like our wedding pic and some family pics. It hit me like a ton of bricks. But from what I understand it is a process they go through. They do not want to be reminded of it and the good times that there were. My wife did not even take her pillows on the bed and went out and bought new ones. I believe it is because she did not want to have my smell in her new bed.
Love is a decision. Genuine love is honor put into action, regardless of the cost.
Me:43 W:41 M:21 SS:25 S:19 D:18 BD1:3/16 BD2:10/16 W moves out 10/2/16