MLC W and preparing for S or D in the new year

[Gordie]

Gordie,
Stay detached but pay very close attention to your interaction with your W while she is being this way. Is there something different to what you're doing? Acting?

I think these may be positive movements.

Steps forwards and steps backwards...this journey has so many twists and turns that it is exhausting...

What has changed with me:

*Non-pursuit (no initiating texts, phone calls, R discussions, or physical intimacy)
*More quality time/quality conversation (this is my W's main LL and her biggest R complaint)

What has changed with W:

*W feels/acts more emotionally connected to me and is more physically affectionate/intimate
*W says she now wants a separation agreement and not to file for D

What hasn't changed:

*We are working on our separation agreement with our Ls
*We are planning to physically separate in the coming weeks

What do I not know:

*Why does my W want separation and not divorce?
*What is happening with POM?