This OW was someone WH had been flirting with for months at his old job. He said she was fun and easy going and was always laughing. As opposed to battle scarred angry me.
When he left me for her the second time, I messaged her. Asked her to leave him while we sorted stuff out. Told her I was watching my three year old sleep and his world was falling apart. She ignored me. Somehow I blame her a lot more. She knew he was married. She knew his wife wanted to make things work. She gave him a choice to walk away. I just hope karma finds her and soon.