Yah good decision on the IC is a definite positive. That is a key part of the R process. Because he will be able to tell her things no one else can. And if she trusts them and opens up to them it will be a huge asset in a quicker R.
I agree totally on the you part but sorta conflicted on the I. Because if you say I and how you feel about something that can be a positive form some of the stuff that I have read. Because feeling is just like taste. Your entailed to your own likes. You tends to point blame, control and several other things. For example if I say you don't like that I truly do not know but if I say I don't like that no one is going to say the differ and accept it. Lie you can say I feel happy that is a positive. But if you can get away with not saying ether that probably is better at this point. Have a good time at your dinner and best of luck.
Small little habit are hard to change but practice makes perfection.
Love is a decision. Genuine love is honor put into action, regardless of the cost.
Me:43 W:41 M:21 SS:25 S:19 D:18 BD1:3/16 BD2:10/16 W moves out 10/2/16