I feel for you and what you are going through. I know this is a tough time and believe me that most of on here are going through it or have gone though it. Going dark during living together is almost impossible. My question for you is what is his level of involvement with the kids? Does he spend a lot of time with them or does he just let you deal with everything with them?
GAL does not have to be just going out. You can do many thing from home when you are with the kids. You can start a new hobby or do projects around the house that have been on the list for ever. A big reason for GAL is so you can get out of your head and active. I know it is a crazy roller coaster ride of emotions but the more you stay busy the better you will feel over time.
Love is a decision. Genuine love is honor put into action, regardless of the cost.
Me:43 W:41 M:21 SS:25 S:19 D:18 BD1:3/16 BD2:10/16 W moves out 10/2/16
