Yes I would agree with you on leaving it alone because it would defiantly come off as controlling or pushy. One glass of wine a night is not a problem it is when it starts becoming more and more over time. That is the first sign of addiction. Because from me and all the people I have heard that is how it starts. Once it starts getting more and more it is progressive with out a consensus decision to stop. Alcoholism is something that can not be told to someone that they have and they say OK I think I do and will stop. It is a progressive and is very destructive. The waywardism is very similar to the alcoholism when it come to the brain. Like I read somewhere it tigers the same are of the brain.
Love is a decision. Genuine love is honor put into action, regardless of the cost.
Me:43 W:41 M:21 SS:25 S:19 D:18 BD1:3/16 BD2:10/16 W moves out 10/2/16