Working on a Trial Separation Agreement with MLC H

[Altair]

Hi cc,
there's lots here that have done both in-house and physical, I can assure you they will come...
I have a shorter version of the story, H and I were long distance, he got depressed/mlc whatever you name it and I didn't really grasp what was happening but when he moved out so we could be together for his new job i was met with a really angry at me depressed person. He picked fights, withdrew, talked about finding apartments, sat and watched videos on his computer in a stupor. I didn't recognize this person and was blown away. He moved out and has been gone for 7 months now into his own place. I don't think I could have handled living with the anger and fault-finding directed at me, it nearly crushed me without it being in my place. Although, you'll have lots of great people here doing it, the in-house sep. I didn't even have a choice, he just left, so I can't say if I would have chosen one over the other. But the few times I have seen him since he left, he's still unhappy-angry person. Either just directed at me or to the world, who knows. I don't argue back, I just get teary-eyed when I see the anger towards me because was it always there and just a build up and he hates me? Or is it just the MLC and he will wake up? Or never come back? These are some of the unknowns that swirl around here. I hope you can find the best way for you and your kids.