Chris73 good for you on detaching more. When people in sitch like us the marriage is always dead and has no hope of ever being like it was because there were to many problems. The only hope is to start a whole new marriage with her on new morals and principles. Now on the drinking part you do believe that she is drinking to much and from personal experience that is a major issue. That only intensifies the sitch. Drink a lot only leads to drink more and more. It creates a very self center person that only cares about what they want. Now I do not know if she was drinking a lot before the OM but it does create a whole new level of fog. It really clouds the thinking on many different levels.


Love is a decision. Genuine love is honor put into action, regardless of the cost.

Me:43 W:41
M:21
SS:25 S:19 D:18
BD1:3/16 BD2:10/16
W moves out 10/2/16