Glad you are doing well I do think they may stay away to protect us on some level they know what they are doing and may not really want the kids around MY xh was always a very hands on dad pre MLC especially with our first after MLC he became strictly a Disney dad then disappeared and still gone like 7 years later It takes a while for some but thank God we move on If they come too there is always a possibility to healing the r maybe not reconciliation but possibly friendship
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