She's right about one thing: your old marriage is dead.
Once your wife throws off the shackles of marriage, will she be OK with you sleeping with another woman? Is she OK with the possibility that you will fall in love with someone else? She wants to be free -- is she OK with you being free as well?
She says she is...but she gets emotional when she says it...so I don't really know...and my mind reading is really bad (W says this is one of the reasons why our M fell apart, seriously)...
My inclination that something is going on with her has continued for the past 24 hours...W was downright flirty last night, including playing with my hair (don't think she's done that since BD)...reached out to hold my hand when we were falling asleep...and she actually called me at work today (also can't remember the last time she did that)...but as Rose advised, I'm just trying to accept and enjoy these moments for what they are and keep my expectations at ZERO...but gosh, it is confusing...
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving
