NYGal: Together and Doing the Work

[Stormchaser]

This is important. There came a point where I realized that W was doing everything she could do to reassure me, and I was the one causing the problems because I couldn't let it go.

This is my worst issue. We had MC last night and my W said she needs to separate because I don't trust her anymore - not just with OM, but in general. For some reason, my worry and anxiety has spiked recently and she's been taking the brunt of it.

I guess we'll see what separation brings. This was so hard for me to let go, I'm not sure I ever will...