I think bluwave was dead on. I've been there and hesitated in making big moves out of fear. The situation got to the point where I really had no option but to file.
- m and ww in 30s - s4 - m 11 yrs, t12 -ilybinilwy ~5/16 + request for OM - bd 7/16, confirm ea and strongly suspected pa - 9/16 ww claimed to have broken contact with om