Hi cadet,yep that figures,she had it hard then took place of her mother and looked after 4 other siblings,but just wondered am I doing right,with total no contact since July,I've been there for her right up till then nearly 40 years,but in July I told her after I learned of the affair and cakeating your on your own now and I'm no longer your best friend,


Me 56 w52
M30 years
4x adult kids
W dad died/11
W wanted d 03/12
In-house sep 03/12
D 2014 I pushed
W Left on 02/16 I pushed
Pa on 07/16
Nc after 07/16
W Cakeating 15to16
Me doormat 12to16
Limbo 12to16