I am so happy to read that you have found a counselor who fits the bill for your situation. I think your wife is getting tired of how she feels and she does want to understand why she feels the way she does.
I wish you and your wife all of the best and may the new year be the best one yet for the two of you.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
