12-28-16 had to attend FOC Conciliation meeting for custody/child support...we will have joint physical/legal custody which we had planned all along
Received child support order...we had already decided that the kids will remain in the current home throughout graduation, I will continue paying mortgage and all associated bills so it is agreed that child support order will not go into effect unless something changes...we will still live in same house for the near future, long term to be decided yet
Had a required FOC orientation yesterday that both of us attended...after we got home, wife obviously feeling guilty about everything unloaded on me about how terrible our marriage has been, she has never had the emotional support she should have had along with my devastating choices I made in the past and how I am such a hypocrite
I listened and validated her feelings
I sometimes don't understand why she still unloads on me, when in the past she has said this relationship is dead and she has no feelings or is numb to the relationship, but when she unloads it is obvious that is not the case...when she unloads that is the only thing that makes me think there is still a remote hope that she may be willing to work on the relationship, but that is a very small hope that I hold out
Today we go for Pre-Trial divorce conference before the judge
H:44 W:43 M:17 S:15 S:14 S:12 W mentions divorce 8/2015 W files divorce 10/2016 D will be final 4/2017 Living together & will for a while
