I can only hope to be where you are some day. With that said, I would think it is very important that she commits to NC with OM. If she is sincere and all in on reconciliation it is imperative that there is no third party involved. Otherwise it would feel to me she is just hedging her bet in case she changes her mind.
Me:42 W:37 M:18 T:23 3S: 4,7,10 EA 6/16 ILYBNILWY 7/16 9/16 separate BR 10/16 Discernment Counseling She's moving out 1/17
