A stronger me for whatever the future holds

[PacLove]

So need some advice here... W is initiating R talks and trying to connect with me daily wanting to work on "us" but take things slow. She hasn't confirmed NC with OM yet though, she knows she needs to do it as we discussed it early on last week and I reminded her the other day that it's important for us to move forward.

Do I hold off on anything until she does it? or hold back a bit? do I give it as an ultimatum? Or just let things run it's course and let her drive the relationship letting her make the decision on her own to go NC.

I'm reluctant to try and control her, and do sense she knows and wants to go NC but is struggling with it.

Her actions have changed indicating that contact is definitely diminished (I don't think she's physically seen him for 2+ weeks but can't confirm for sure) but suspect she's still talking with him regularly.