I think temp checking is "good" in that ... well, it's like what SM24 said in another thread. The opposite of love isn't hate. It's apathy. If your W was done-done-done... she just wouldn't care, and she wouldn't bother to temp check you.
Me: 50, MLC/WW 45 Young kids Nov 2015: BD1 Apr 2016: BD2 Jan 2017: W filed Feb 2017: D final