As a LBS that is truly wanting to work things out with my W I understand your feelings, but it truly takes two to make a M work and only one to get out. That is the reality that I am trying to work thru right now. Please know that you are not alone in all of this. There are many of us here that are trying to get thru the same trial you are right now.
Would giving him an ultimatum to work on the M really draw him towards you or push him further away?
Me 49 W46 T25 M22 S22 D18 S13 W had EA Apr-Jul 2016 Dropped Bomb 7/9/16 ILYBINILWYA HER DIVORCE IS FINAL...8/18/17 Dropping the rope to SURVIVE & THRIVE!!!