@Vapo: I'm definitely trying to discontinue the snooping. I also am trying to get rid of any expectations at this point. I'm not quite there with either of these topics but I am getting MUCH better.
@Forgump:Thanks for your feedback
@Darkness: Yes, I do see why. I sure wish I had the intelligence at that moment to stop with just that, and also not to invalidate her question. Alas, what is done is done...trying to learn.