Try to locate a "solution based" therapist. You don't want someone who encourages people to find out what the laws are about divorce. You want someone who is going to be there to listen and offer good, sound advice and help you understand what is going on and how to go about repairing not only the relationship, but you.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
