ccgrrl - One thing I've noticed from what others here have written is that there is wide variety in MC. Some of them are "pro-marriage" and will work with the couple to rebuild and heal. Others are looking at it from an individual health point of view and may even counsel a couple to split and "do what makes you happy".
Asking this counselor which way they lean may be the most important thing you say.
On BD H52, W50 T27, M26 S21, D23 BD-9-Mar-16 D-15-Jan-18 Final-19-Apr-18 I am a storyteller. The story may do you no good. But a story is never for the listener. It is always for the one who tells