Originally Posted By: SM34
You cannot hate someone without also loving them. The opposite of Love is not hate, it is apathy.

SM34, this is beautifully put.

But then I got to thinking about some current political figures, then I realized I can certainly hate people w/o loving them. smile

Anyway, I think wayward spouses at least CARE ABOUT their LBS's (in some twisted, confused way). But yes, to the extent they are pushing you away, they are attached you.


Me: 50, MLC/WW 45
Young kids
Nov 2015: BD1
Apr 2016: BD2
Jan 2017: W filed
Feb 2017: D final