One more thing. Make sure you are being consistent in your actions. If you go back and forth with your approach she will not respond well at all. She needs to believe your actions and trust that your changes are genuine.
Me:42 W:37 M:18 T:23 3S: 4,7,10 EA 6/16 ILYBNILWY 7/16 9/16 separate BR 10/16 Discernment Counseling She's moving out 1/17