Hey Chris, I'm glad you at least have a game plan now. I think as you implement your strategy you will feel much more at ease. I may be wrong but I don't think you are very comfortable with the tough love strategy. Just remember that lovingly detaching doesn't mean being a doormat. You still need to set boundaries in some instances. Don't forget you are setting boundaries to protect yourself not to punish your W. If you're not comfortable sharing the MBR with her then make yourself your own MBR even better than hers. Hang in there buddy. Things will get better for you.


Me:42 W:37
M:18 T:23
3S: 4,7,10
EA 6/16
ILYBNILWY 7/16
9/16 separate BR
10/16 Discernment Counseling
She's moving out 1/17