Hi, in answer to your question about £ detriment. For me that was short term only. We were pretty wealthy, but I left our marital home, the area and my job at BD. Then I had little in the way of cash for two years until £ issues were resolved.

As for her Q, fine to answer I think & I agree with Ginger. Watch out for invalidating comments though - ie: your Q is pointless - you saw the reaction that got? She gave up - don't bother etc.

Better to say - interesting Q - or even 'why do you ask that?'

It's all a learning curve...so what have you done for yourself these past few days? :-)

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus