Maybe your coach is trying to get you to #3? Where are you on this spectrum?
1 - I am not comfortable in your physical presence
2 - I am comfortable in your physical presence, but your physical touch repels me
3 - I am comfortable with your platonic physical touch (what you might do with a friend or a relative)
4 - I am comfortable with your non-sexual physical touch (a kiss on the cheek, a hug, a snuggle, a back massage)
5 - I am comfortable with everything but sex
6 - What are you waiting for? Let's get it on!
Yes, right around #2 Gordie...
So if you got to #3 that would be progress, right? It doesn't have to be the end destination.
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving