Maybe your coach is trying to get you to #3? Where are you on this spectrum?
1 - I am not comfortable in your physical presence
2 - I am comfortable in your physical presence, but your physical touch repels me
3 - I am comfortable with your platonic physical touch (what you might do with a friend or a relative)
4 - I am comfortable with your non-sexual physical touch (a kiss on the cheek, a hug, a snuggle, a back massage)
5 - I am comfortable with everything but sex
6 - What are you waiting for? Let's get it on!
Yes, right around #2 Gordie...
M46 W48 M11 T14 S11 D8 BD: 2016/05/27 In-home separation: 2016/11/23 Nesting: 2017/06/11 W moves out: 2018/01/07 W goes public with OM: 2018/07/12 I ask for a divorce: 2018/12/14