Hi roist, thanks for stopping by, and Happy New Year to you too!

Things are going fairly well for both of us over here, I really can’t complain. (but surprise, sometimes I still do!)

I just keep on making the best of things and enjoying each day as much as possible. Much better than waiting for some outcome or finish line, I believe. I give my wife my best and I know she is doing the same. Some things she just isn’t capable of giving right now. I still believe this can change.

But, she does end up pleasantly surprising me time and time again. Gosh, I Love my girl!

We had a good discussing regarding the State of the Union recently.

Wife says she is content enough, and that she understands things could be worse. Funny, that I feel the same way! But there’s little doubt that she struggles greatly at certain moments… Much more than I do. I know because we live together and she’s told me.

I asked if she’d agree to see a counselor “to save our Marriage” (!) She said yes, so I’m setting something up. I hope this can be a stepping stone for the healing she deserves... and an even better connection for the two of us.

M: A really long time.
Crisis: 5 years.
She's still worth it.

Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl