Thanks. I just updated my thread. I still feel pretty lousy but it's likely because I'm still recovering from last night's drama. I will be forging ahead with the coach's plan to see if it makes any difference in my life (and my relationship with my W).
M46 W48 M11 T14 S11 D8 BD: 2016/05/27 In-home separation: 2016/11/23 Nesting: 2017/06/11 W moves out: 2018/01/07 W goes public with OM: 2018/07/12 I ask for a divorce: 2018/12/14