Today W flat out asked celeb if he wanted to be with her via email. So any ambiguity is gone now. She is prepared to leave me if she gets the chance. However, it is very unlikely that he is going to say yes. He will either ignore her request or perhaps say no(if I am lucky). So, I still have some time here. It looks like I have to bring this out in the open soon. I guess I knew this was the truth already because I'm handling it pretty well so far. It hurts to see it in B&W though. I'm worried about my kids. I feel like I am more prepared to face her now though. It really is all or nothing for me now. I won't live in a sham marriage. I would still really like some advice or strategy on how to bring this out. I will probably wait some more days so I can get my emotions together and learn more from you all. Thank you for any help provided.