Early on I sold my sports car at her "suggestion", quit drinking for a while and compromised some of my own internal values for W and it had very little effect on the R - she still moved out.

Stay true to yourself and change the things you want to change, not because your W wants you to change.

Me: 40 W: 45
T: 13, M: 11
1 D: 9

Suspect A 6/15
ILBINILWY 8/15, and 3/16
EA/PA Discovered 3/16
EA admitted 3/16
W Moved out 4/16
W opens R talk and says A over 1/17