PacLove, to the extent that you understand your WW... what is the difference, in her mind, between D & S? (Maybe it also depends on the legal framework of where you live). What would an S get her instead of a D?
Also, do you know why your W's IC was pushing her toward a D? Was she just trying to make your W be decisive, take control of her life, and be happy?
Just curious.....
Me: 50, MLC/WW 45 Young kids Nov 2015: BD1 Apr 2016: BD2 Jan 2017: W filed Feb 2017: D final