A stronger me for whatever the future holds

[PacLove]

Hi Gordie - not sure what you mean - I think she chose S as she never really gave up on the M but knew that she needed space to figure things out. Early on she said she didn't want to be married, just wants to be alone etc. etc... but that's starting to turn around now where she is recognizing the value of having a relationship and a life partner.

I ask because my W has gone through phases:
Sep - I don't want to be married
Oct - I want a D
Dec - I want a S

I try not to mind read, but I do wonder what the thinking is behind these changes.

That sounds familiar - D was mentioned multiple times over the course of our Separation - she would always bring it up "do I want a D" too which I always said not interested... she even brought up "legal separation" as recently as Oct. I don't try and mind read anymore - just ignore it and take your own path. There's a lot of confusion in their minds and they don't know what they want, the best thing you can do is offer stability and continue to improve yourself. Be the attractive H!