Originally Posted By: PacLove


Hi Gordie - not sure what you mean - I think she chose S as she never really gave up on the M but knew that she needed space to figure things out. Early on she said she didn't want to be married, just wants to be alone etc. etc... but that's starting to turn around now where she is recognizing the value of having a relationship and a life partner.



I ask because my W has gone through phases:
Sep - I don't want to be married
Oct - I want a D
Dec - I want a S

I try not to mind read, but I do wonder what the thinking is behind these changes.


Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving