So far good, we had a longish ~15 min call last night after she said good night to D. random IM throughout the weekend but I'm definitely holding back a little.
W suggested a date next weekend - so that will be our first "alone together" time. in some of our IM that took place I re-emphasized I want to be sure she's gone NC before proceeding and she understands (but has not yet said that has happened)
Originally Posted By: Gordie
Why did your W choose S and not D? My W has told me the same thing.
Hi Gordie - not sure what you mean - I think she chose S as she never really gave up on the M but knew that she needed space to figure things out. Early on she said she didn't want to be married, just wants to be alone etc. etc... but that's starting to turn around now where she is recognizing the value of having a relationship and a life partner.
Me: 40 W: 45 T: 13, M: 11 1 D: 9
Suspect A 6/15 ILBINILWY 8/15, and 3/16 EA/PA Discovered 3/16 EA admitted 3/16 W Moved out 4/16 W opens R talk and says A over 1/17
