Love and hate all reside in the same emotional spectrum. They are not opposites at all. You cannot hate someone without also loving them. The opposite of Love is not hate, it is apathy.
When your H spouts anger and displays fits of rage like a little boy it is because he cares. It is when people act apathetic that the feelings are gone. Your husband has plenty of feelings for you and for HIS family. He's simply confused and looking for confirmation and validation for his long list of grievances you have caused him. Show him the better you, all the time. Consistently. Until he can't remember what it is he disliked about you. That is how you confuse broken people who want to cut and run.
Me, H-34 now 38 W-32 now 35 T-13 now 18 years M-6 now 9 Daughter 3 years now 7 Bomb 11/27/12 - OM 1 year in house separation Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017
