As far as any more R talks with her, if she wants to do that again it might be best to just say..."unless you want to talk about how we fix our M I'm really not interested". Set the boundary, if she starts in a different direction, walk away. I really mean walk away. Just close your mouth and leave the room or house if necessary. Discussions about how to amically end the marriage are not in your best interest. You only need to say it once.


Me:49 W:45
M:19 T:22
EA confirmed and ended 8/2014
S:19,17 D:9,5