I filed - Anxious to get it over

[fightin]

You're not bursting anything. I welcome input or I wouldn't have posted it. Yes, only 2 months post BD. I've discussed with my IC and she feels given the boundaries we've set up it is okay to proceed, however, I do understand the concern.

We aren't exclusive, not making any plans beyond "wanna hang out today?", just having conversations about daily stuff and went to look at art together and have a beer. Very low key. I know neither of us are ready for a relationship, but I don't see why that has to mean we can't have companionship and be attracted to one another. I understand and agree that trying to be in a relationship would be a disaster. I think you can enjoy someone's company without starting a life with them though. Maybe I'm off the mark, but I thought there was a difference between dating casually and dating with intent to have a relationship at some point. Do I like her? Absolutely, but we're both keeping one another at arms length so to speak.