Not to burst your bubble but aren't you only 2 months post BD? Do you really think you are ready for a new R, even if you're taking it slow? Add to the fact that she is newly single and I can't imagine either of you are in a good place to get into anything new at this point.
Me:42 W:37 M:18 T:23 3S: 4,7,10 EA 6/16 ILYBNILWY 7/16 9/16 separate BR 10/16 Discernment Counseling She's moving out 1/17